Kids Freak Fest! Part 2…Where Do The Kids Learn This Mess!
Warning!! The following Nelly video is not safe to view at Work. View at your own discretion.
“Tip Drill” by Nelly
So now that we have all seen the “Kid’s Freak Fest!” video and have become equally appalled by what we have seen, we now need to figure out where this type of behavior comes from and what is needed to stop it. Sure, we as parents have the most important role in raising our children but, what about the kids that do not have good parents? What can we do to help them? Well for starters, we can need change the media portrays us. We especially need to change how our own music portrays us. As I have said before, we are letting our “Black” music define our African American culture. Our kids are learning how to walk, talk, dress, treat women, treat men, have sex, etc…from music videos. Hip-Hop has become synonymous with African-American culture. To behave differently from Hip-Hop is to act “White.”
Our TV shows aren’t much better. Have you ever seen “The Flavor of Love?” We need to monitor what our children see, or hear. However, in a society where more and more children are being raised in a single-parent home or where both parents have to work, kids have more unsupervised time than ever before. So that is why we need to take our defense beyond our homes and into the record company offices, the TV studios, the FCC headquarters, and our elected officials doorsteps. We need to let advertisers know that their products are not welcome in our homes either, if they continue to support the stations that broadcast these negative stereotypes of our people.
Our children are our future and we are letting them become exposed to POISON during their development into adults. Yes, our music has become Poison and I am not alone in that assessment.
Misogyny and Women of Color
Objectified female bodies are everywhere: in advertising images, on magazine covers, and television and movie screens. Presenting a one-dimensional portrayal of male heterosexuality, using the female body as an advertising vehicle limits the ways in which men and women can interact. As Byron Hurt says in HIP-HOP: Beyond Beats and Rhymes, “Some people say that it’s just boys being boys, but I think it has a lot to do with boys figuring out early that girls are there for us to sexually objectify or to be our sexual playthings.”While media images might be written off as “only pictures” or “fantasy representation,” they remain a very real part of American culture, with real-life implications for viewers and consumers. Writer and actor Sarah Jones explains, “The image of scantily-clad women is supposed to affirm some image of masculinity, the man as a mack…. But in actuality, what they show themselves to be is incredibly insecure. And the idea is, these men are so important and so powerful, and these women conversely are so dime a dozen… that they don’t matter, they’re just eye candy, they’re worthless.”
For women of color, misogyny and (mis)representation is two-fold, playing on stereotypes of both gender and race. Scholar Jelani Cobb blames sexist music videos for taking “a view of women of color that’s not radically different from the views of 19th-century white slaveholders.” Communities of color must also begin to value fighting misogyny and violence against women as a crucial issue and one that is inseparable from racism and other power imbalances. As writer and teacher Michael Dyson says, “If we have a glorified sense of our own victimization as black and brown men, what we must not miss and what we often do is to understand that black and brown women themselves are so victimized, not only by a white patriarchy, but by black male supremacy and by the violence of masculinity that’s directed toward them.”
· Black women are 35% more likely to be assaulted than white women.
· Only 7% of black women who are assaulted report the crime to the police. The rate in the entire population is 42%The Shift
Hip-hop lovers reminisce about the “golden era” of hip-hop in the late 1980s and early 1990s, when a diversity of music makers included conscious rappers, party rappers, gangster rappers and more. But today, with the onslaught of media conglomeration and hip-hop’s full establishment into the mainstream, commercial rap’s lyrical content has grown increasingly limited and one-dimensional. Hip-hop, which began as a form of cultural expression in marginalized communities and was once poised to become a vehicle for African American empowerment and political activism, is today stereotyped as misogynistic and homophobic, glorifying violence and racist caricature.
One explanation might be that labels simply refuse to put out anything else-commercial rap simply sells more, especially now that media corporations are involved.
· The Hip-Hop industry garners more than ten billion dollars a year
· Seventy-percent of mainstream Hip-Hop is consumed by white men.
· Five media conglomerates control more than 80% of broadcast and cable television viewing.
· More than 90% of record labels, magazines, TV Stations, radio stations, and retailers disseminating Hip=Hop related products are white-owned.
So let me get this straight. White people own the TV stations, Radio stations, and the Record Companies… Which means they also own mainstream Hip-Hop music …Which means they also own African American culture as a bonus.



Someone please put this video in the hands of the police, who can trace this video and prosecute the parents. Put them on display for their abuse of these children. That little girl was obviously being trained to stimulate a man and you can bet she is candidate for a penifile. I am a teacher and I have had little girls like her in my class. I had to be careful to watch little girls like that because they have been awaken early and they tend to seek to molest other little children. One 7yr old girl kept trying to sneak into the bathroom when a fellow boy she liked would ask to go to the restroom. One time I thought to she where she was after the young boy 8 had gone to the bathroom. I found her cornering him, while he stood in the corner terrified. That God her father had gotten custody of her and was getting her intensive therapy. I taught her to read and to respect herself. Today she is a feminist that respects her body and has a strong sense of self. I am very proud of where she is now at age 13. Her mother’s boyfriend had molested her when she was a 4. The little girl in the video can be saved too. Pray for our children and these mothers that are so desperate for a man that they take them into their home. And trust them to babysit their kids. I understand that mom wants to date, but back in the day mother’s went to a hotel. They didn’t bring them over her kids until she put him through months of checks. That’s another story.
Since you are supposedly a teacher, please explain “penifile”.
What does “That God her father” mean?
“They didn’t bring them over her kids until she put him through months of checks.” WTF???????????
A 13 year old feminist please!
What kind of teacher are you?Must have majored in Ebonics.
Although this video is very disturbing, i take solace in seeing the many comments by folk who are as appalled as i am. We can thank God that this world is made up of predominately good, decent, moral people who find this type of behavior outrageous. Of course, there will always be those who are ignorant, undoubtedly uneducated and morally bankrupt, as are the people who shot this video and Big Jim, of course. We can only pray for them and continue to teach those that we have responsibility for to be good, moral, productive and socially responsible people.
Too many times I have heard someone defend this kind of lunacy with the phrase ‘Rappers are not leaders’. I have to disagree vehemently. Nelly and other ‘rappers’ of his ilk have a responsiblity to the young people that they influence. Is it such a surprise that Western society is losing its values and morality, whilst Africa and Asia look on in disbelief? We are refusing to accept guidance as to what is right and what is wrong - to our detriment. Excellent article.
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